Wednesday, July 27, 2011

When we're incomplete, we're always searching for somebody to complete us. When, after a few years or a few months of a relationship, we find that we're still unfulfilled, we blame our partners and take up with somebody more promising. This can go on and on--series polygamy--until we admit that while a partner can add sweet dimensions to our lives, we, each of us, are responsible for our own fulfillment. Nobody else can provide it for us, and to believe otherwise is to delude ourselves dangerously and to program for eventual failure every relationship we enter.


  1. Luv you Barby :) This is life. So true. Thanks for this. Just so you know cheer up charlie.. You have so much potential and yah your in a "funk" right now, but you'll get out of that shiz and you'll be stellar after that. So hold on life is bumpy right now but you know your cool and you know who you are, which is rare in Utah, so hold on to that.
    xoxo an Ogden friend:)

  2. Dear Ogden.

    Thank you so much for the kind words. Sometimes I don't get a face with the comments, but they still mean a lot to me.

    Thank you :)